Wednesday, December 14, 2005

Public Apology...

I had no idea I hurt someone like I did. When I read how I was ripped apart, I felt horrible and the tears just started. When I type notes I usually have a hint of a smile in my tone. Always. I would never be malicious. I really must have lost something in translation. I try to brighten someone's day...never hurt. I am so far being mean, I'm sorry.

I'm sitting here in tears because I hurt someone, because I was saracastic. It was being sweet. I didn't have a mean tone in my body.

It's been a rough 4 days over here with me in and out of the doctor's office. I am sorry if I am sarcastic. I'm at a loss here.

I just want everyone to know I didn't mean to hurt Mat. He asked if anyone wanted him to translate something about how civilization is being destroyed. I said...yes translate, we'd love to see how we're working towards our own demise. I said nice thought...but i signed xoxo C. I'm very much a person for humanity. If any of you were close you'd know I'd be there to help any of you with a hug or anything. If any of you find me offensive I'm so sorry. After all these months i just thought You would know that I'm kind and not hurtful.

Sorry sorry sorry...I don't know what else to say. Ok...now let's see...how do I get the tears to stop, because it's like a faucet was just turned on.
xoxo
C

21 comments:

Choppzs said...

I just have to say that this is STUPID!!! Blogs are a PUBLIC forum, if you don't want people commenting on what you write, you have the choice to make it a non-commenting blog. I think personally, he is just having his male PMS, and needs to sit back and relax. Seriously, is it something that big to get so worked up over and start bashing people??? I don't think so!!! Don't take it so hard, just let it roll and know you apologized and if he chooses not to accept, then know you are the bigger person!!!! :)

Wethyb said...

Amen to what CHOPPZ said.

This is what I get for being on vacation. Heather and I are sitting here reading all this thinking "what the hell is going on?".

I enjoy reading both of your blogs, but I think it's unfortunate that he can't accept your apology. I know, as well as most everyone else knows, that you are a sincere and sweet person and wouldn't ever say anything to intentionally hurt or offend anyone. That is what sucks about these things, you can never tell exactly what is meant by things. It seems to me he just took what you said out of context, which can easily be done.

Please don't cry. This will pass and know that better days will come.

xoxo!!!!!

Peanutt said...

Awww don't cry honey! If he's going to be like that towards you then he doesn't know you at all! We know your not a mean spirited person!
Love you honey!

ThoughtsGalore said...

Two of my favorites...who are sisters...who get to hang out together! I'm soooo happy you're enjoying each other. Beth how big is her sweet belly. :)

I've never been called out on anything and it just hurt. I just wanted all my bloggin babes who read both the blogs to know that I'm completely at a loss and I didn't mean to hurt his feelings.

Ok, now go back to reading and enjoy!
Love,
C

Liza said...

Don't worry Christie, it's okay to cry even if it's about a blog. I did last week lol! Like Beth, I read both and I love reading both you and so-n-so's blogs very much and consider you both my friends so I'm not going to stick my nose into your business by giving unsolicited advice and what not, but just know that I think your apology is very sweet and heartfelt and I know how being under the weather can change the way we might come across to people, especially since it's all in writing. Sometimes it can be hard to detect sarcasm and how serious something may or may not be in writing. I also just realized that that is a really long run on sentance. Just know that I think you did the right thing and in a very sweet way too. The only thing I will say is that I think so-n-so should have emailed you about something so personal rather than putting it on his blog like that out of respect for you, but it is his blog and people can write what they want on there. You're an awesome person Christie and I'm really glad that I've gotten to know you over the past few months!

*hugs*

[Mat] said...

Male pms-ing. That's a first.

I read your comment, I did say I accepted it. We don't know each other and I'm sorry I made you cry. That wasn't my intention.

I will repeat what I've said, it wasn't meant as offensive. So, as these girls who obvioulsy know better than me what I'm feeling said, don't cry over it. It's just not worth it.

Ha, words. So un-aptly appreciated sometimes.

Wethyb said...

This is why women are women and men are men. We just don't get each other.

ThoughtsGalore said...

Ok Ok...:)

I'm just quite hormonal with the ovary thing going and I've been on the phone all day trying to get the surgery scheduled. Ugh.

So..it's ok...We're good. I cry.

[Mat] said...

Sorry about that. Again.
Liza is right.
Consider me an ass.

ThoughtsGalore said...

But such a sweet ass...:)

Oh and our favorite male ass on here.

Liza said...

You know who my favorite female ass is? Mine. It's just so hot. LOL Just kidding! I'm so glad things are worked out now. I didn't want to have to visit someone every other weekend and on certain holidays.

LizzieDaisy said...

Whew. I'm blog jumping trying to figure out what happened but it looks like you all have it figured out. I hate conflict. And if you must know... I think both your asses are pretty hot. But don't tell anyone cause that would get MY ass in trouble.

Kisses all around.

And just so ya know (jsyk... remember that one), my family would be silent if they weren't allowed to use sarcasm in their speech. Just sayin... to protect myself later. It's a habit. I also don't do politics... strictly don't ask don't tell cause I agree with noone. My blog is for entertainment purposes only. Remember that everyone. Hee...

Lovies!!!

Wethyb said...

Phew! Glad this is over :)

dakotablueeyes said...

Glad its cleared up.

Jewl said...

Hmmm, looks like I missed allot. What else is new? Hope all is better with the Blog world now.

Dottie said...

lidI missed a lot, too but am so very glad that you have gotten it worked out. Please don't cry....there is just something so not right with the world when your sweet self is sad. HUGS and feel better!!!!

Cat said...

Okay, I was lost, but guess that it is okay now. I just know that you woulnd't intentionally say anything to hurt anyone. Unless justified! ;)

Glad it is all worked out. Please don't get upset over the Internet stuff, words here can never be seen as they are truely intended. Emotions are hard to express. (we need more smileys for that!)

Take care of yourself, SMILE!

[Mat] said...

I still have a thing to say.

Talking about someone that way. The whole PMS thing. Shouldn't you just try and read better before commenting.

You care about Christie, I appreciate that.

Still, temper temper, mon capitaine.

Kelly said...

Just giving you some (((Hugs)))

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