Dear Ms. Holier Than Thou...
First I'm going to thank you so much for taking such a vested interest in my children. Thanks for looking me in my face with your fake smile and telling me how their lifestyle (marine father)isn't going to to make them confident, stable, happy children. Hmmmmm. Really?
Let me start by saying that I have three of the greatest, really normal,really happy, yes stable, totally funny, screamers at one another when pissy,surprisingly really smart and great at math (with me for a mother) and they're totally adaptable to so many situations.
I have amazing kids.
Next time you want to be condensending, bitchy or just mean...save your breath. My husband protects our country, works his ass off, makes a nice nice living, enjoys life, and won't talk politics if you paid him. He loves his children, oh and me...and I'm very proud of him. Move to Canada (no offense my Canadian friends), Mexico...Europe...anywhere if you really feel that our military is that horrible.
Get a hobby. Clean your house. Learn to sew. Try Gardening. Stop worrying about others. That's it. Nothing more. Enjoy your "Perfect" day.